People often ask me during consultations:
“Why does my life feel like it’s divided into such drastically different chapters?”
I smile — the practiced smile of someone who has answered this question thousands of times — and reply with gentle irony:
“Because you’re not living one life. You’re living four.”
In Ba Zi, these four lives are embedded in the Four Pillars — Year, Month, Day, and Hour — each acting as a container for a distinct layer of your existence: your roots, your maturation, your personal essence, and your direction forward. Each holds a Heavenly Stem, an Earthly Branch, Hidden Stems, and — the star of today’s discussion — its Qi Stage.
When we study Ba Zi (a disciplined and ancient science in China, Taiwan, Hong Kong, and Singapore), we see that each Pillar lives through its own 12-stage energetic cycle, its own “breathing rhythm” of power, decline, renewal, and potential.
These Qi Stages are not poetic ornaments. They are technical indicators used for centuries in both Four Pillars analysis and Feng Shui. They reveal:
- what you carried over from previous lives,
- what you did not master yet,
- what you must learn now to build harmony,
- and the temptations that can beautifully — or catastrophically — derail you.
In the Destiny Chart within BaZi Advisor, each stage is clearly marked, and with a single click you get its full decoding. The Brief Profile Info has an entire panel dedicated to Life Lessons, for those who prefer shorter, less philosophical awakenings.
Qi Stages also color the way 10 Gods and Auxiliary Stars manifest. A Prosperous Direct Officer does not behave like a Death-stage one. Peach Blossom in Youth has a completely different tone than Peach Blossom in Grave. Sky Horse in Thriving is, frankly, something your friends should be warned about.
Now, let’s explore the 12 Stages.
Make some tea. Or coffee. Or something stronger, depending on the stage of your life.
The 12 Qi Stages — The Energetic Lives of Your Four Pillars
Each Qi Stage is a snapshot of how an Element breathes—rising, peaking, fading, and renewing—revealing the hidden rhythm behind every Pillar in your BaZi chart. Understanding these twelve phases means understanding the four lives your destiny unfolds at once.
1. Birth — The Spark of Becoming
Birth is the pure beginning — the phase of hope, potential, and raw expansion, like a child growing faster than anyone can keep track of.
This stage dreams loudly, starts enthusiastically, and abandons effortlessly; it is rich in ideas but poor in filters.
A Resource God here imagines endlessly; an Output God plays with possibilities like toys.
Its extra note: Birth always believes tomorrow is brighter than today, and that belief alone becomes its first source of power.
2. Bath — The Tide of Emotion
Bath is young, colorful, dramatic energy — charming, magnetic, volatile.
It desires connection, warmth, and validation while getting distracted by anything that sparkles.
Peach Blossom is irresistible here, but a Hurting Officer may create chaos faster than clarity. For Jane Doe, Hurting Officer in Bath brings emotional intensity wrapped in charisma — a mix that attracts attention but also amplifies impulsive reactions. This is a stage where expression flows freely, sometimes too freely, and discipline becomes the key to turning passion into influence rather than chaos.
Its extra note: Bath is emotionally honest to a fault, wearing its heart outside its armor long before it has time to forge the armor itself.
3. Youth — The Fire That Wants Everything Now
Youth is fast, impatient, ambitious — a flame racing across open fields.
It wants love, success, excitement, and proof of greatness immediately, usually all at once.
A Rob Wealth here becomes a charismatic storm; an Indirect Resource dreams ten futures before lunch. For Jane Doe, her Eating God in Youth acts like a brilliant spark racing ahead of itself — full of ideas, charm, and creative surges that arrive faster than she can ground them. When she learns to focus her vision instead of chasing every inspiration, her potential becomes unstoppable.
Its extra note: Youth burns brightest when it chooses a direction rather than sprinting in twelve at once.
4. Thriving — The Controlled Fire
Thriving is focused expansion, independence with intention, ambition sharpened into results.
It follows its own path, its own rules, and its own stubborn definitions of progress.
A Direct Officer becomes disciplined excellence; Seven Killings becomes terrifyingly effective (or just terrifying).
Its extra note: Thriving will redo the entire map if the map does not match its chosen direction — and it rarely asks permission.
5. Prosperous — The Zenith
Prosperous is the midday sun — full power, visibility, recognition, leadership.
It attracts people naturally, inspires effortlessly, and commands the stage without trying.
A Nobleman Star here feels heaven-sent; a Wealth God becomes a generator of abundance.
Its extra note: Prosperous believes it can carry the world — and the world, for a moment, believes it too.
6. Aging — The Gentle Descent
Aging (Weakening) slows the rhythm and clarifies the vision.
It becomes selective: what matters stays; what drains leaves.
A Resource God grows wise, while Output softens into contemplation.
Its extra note: Aging doesn’t lose fire; it simply burns cleaner, becoming a lantern instead of a wildfire.
7. Sick — The Empath
Sick is soft energy — sensitive, compassionate, aware of pain (its own and others’).
It preserves resources, prioritizes care, and avoids unnecessary battles.
A Direct Wealth becomes nurturing; an Officer becomes deeply attentive.
Its extra note: Sick carries a quiet strength — the kind that heals rooms simply by entering them.
8. Death — The Reset Button
Death is not an ending but a clearing — a reboot of identity, purpose, and direction.
It overthinks, re-examines, and strips life down to essentials.
An Indirect Resource becomes philosophical; a Hurting Officer questions everything.
Its extra note: Death holds the rare courage to discard what others cling to, creating space for true rebirth.
9. Grave — The Inner Archive
Grave is deep introspection, inner preparation, slow but meaningful transformation.
It moves at its own tempo, quietly building from within.
Sky Horse here gallops through thought rather than landscape. For Jane Doe, the Indirect Wealth in Grave functions like a quiet strategist, gathering resources internally and moving at a deliberate, almost hidden pace. Opportunities come when she honors her natural rhythm — slow preparation, deep reflection, and steady accumulation rather than quick wins.
Its extra note: Grave grows roots before branches — it gathers strength in stillness no one notices.
10. Repose — The Chaos Before Stillness
Repose (Extinction) is volatility mixed with resilience — sudden shifts, lucky breaks, sharp turns.
Its moods, plans, and fortunes move like weather systems.
A Seven Killings here writes dramatic biographies; Peach Blossom creates unforgettable stories.
Its extra note: Repose teaches that chaos is not the enemy — denial of reality is.
11. Conception — The First Breath of Return
Conception is renewed curiosity, gentle motion, and the spark of new learning.
It explains naturally, teaches easily, and simplifies complexity with disarming sincerity.
Resource Gods flourish here, and Indirect Wealth plants ideas like seeds.
Its extra note: Conception sees possibility everywhere — even in places others abandoned long ago.
12. Nourishing — The Good Heart
Nourishing is warm, connective, altruistic energy that thrives on relationships.
It gives, uplifts, supports, and sometimes depends too much on others' approval.
A Nobleman Star glows brightly here; Wealth Gods become generous and humane.
Its extra note: Nourishing discovers that true growth comes not from taking care of everyone — but from taking care of the self that cares.
Conclusion — Your Four Lives Are Waiting
These 12 phases are not metaphors or philosophical ornaments. They are the technical architecture of your destiny, shaping how each pillar breathes, reacts, grows, and influences your life. Each pillar lives through its own life cycle — and you experience all four simultaneously.
If you want to see which stages your pillars are living, what Life Lessons unfold for you, and what temptations might throw you off your path, open your BaZi Advisor Destiny Chart and tap the highlighted stage.
“Destiny is not a prophecy. It’s an operating manual.”
— Master Wey
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Master Wey
Teacher of Classical Chinese Metaphysics